New Disclaimer Proposed for Highlands Residents on Facebook

my opinion What you need to know about R- 14- 220:

Highlands New Jersey Facebook “Group”

The Borough of Highlands wants to mandate that any elected official, official, employee, agent, representative, and volunteer must include a disclosure on any post to the Highlands, New Jersey Facebook page (which there actually isn’t one, there is a Highlands, New Jersey Facebook Group – you can tell by the word groups in the url) OR any other social media site (pretty loose scope).

The proposed disclosure shall read “the following is a statement, comment or posting of [your name here] only and does not represent an official statement, comment or posting on behalf of the Borough of Highlands.”

A few things here:

a) All of the things that need to be accomplished in Highlands: Flood mitigation, Town Hall & PD station repaired, Tax stabilization, Attracting businesses to Bay Ave, and they chose this as a priority??  Really?

b) The proposed resolution is so broadly written it opens the door to selective enforcement, which in I’m guessing was purposefully done.

c) It appears to be another way to gag residents. First they limited the amount of time you have to ask questions in a council meeting. Now they are trying to legislate how you communicate on social media.

HB fb page
Highlands Blog Facebook “Page”

d) If their assertion that people are getting “confused” because Highlands is in the title of the social media site, then ask the social media site owner to disclose its not an Official Highlands Borough Social Media site.  I know this should be obvious already to anybody going to the said page/groups etc. But some people apparently get easily confused.  This Blog has a facebook page. (You can tell because it has the word “page” in the url) and its always had in the header “Personal Blog”)

e) A better way to handle it would be to have an official Highlands Borough Facebook Page & Twitter Account. (Like other towns, i.e. Middletown, or Hazlet) for “Official communication”.

f) Another potential way to handle it would be to have “officials” put a disclaimer up when they are posting “official” business. This way its a much narrower scope, easier to enforce and doesn’t force 1/2 the town to write a disclosure when they post anything anywhere.  Have you ever volunteered for anything in town, ever? Well then my fellow resident, you would be considered a volunteer under this proposed resolution.

g) The disclaimer doesn’t fit in a Tweet – (which is only 140 characters), what happens there?

h) Its on the Highlands Agenda for Wednesday Night’s Council Meeting at 8pm HES. If you feel like this is a joke and want our elected officials to spend more time fixing our town, getting grants and stabilizing taxes, you might want to come and speak out. (But do it in 3 minutes or less.)

i) This resolution seems to be counter productive.  If you volunteer you’re not allowed to post on social media with out disclosure, and if you post on certain outlets, you can’t volunteer. Here are some of the social media outlets that could be considered if you ever volunteered and post on:

Instagram (You want to post a pic of Twin Lights, make sure you disclose that’s your pic and has nothing to do with the Town.)
Google +
Any Comments section of any web site
Google Talk
Yahoo Buzz

Halloween for kids & seniors in Highlands

sandy jackolanternsSeniors:

The Highlands Senior Citizen Group will be having a Halloween Luncheon on Thursday, October 23rd at 12:00 noon at the VFW Hall on 331 Bay Ave. The cost is $5.00 per person which includes pizza, soda, donuts, apple cider, and coffee. Come join us for a Spooktacular Day of fun, games, and spooky music. Enter our Costume Contest for Scariest, Most Original, and Funniest costume. For more information or to RSVP, please contact Rose at 732-291-7512 or Judith at 732-291-9249 by October 20th.



Halloween Costume Contest & Magic Show
The Borough of Highlands Recreation Dept. will be having its Halloween Costume Contest and a Magic Show on Sunday, October 26th at the Henry Hudson Regional School Cafeteria. The Costume Contest will begin promptly at 1:00 pm and the Magic Show will begin at 1:30 pm. Categories for participation in the contest are as follows: Ages 3 and under; Ages 4, 5, & 6; Ages 7, 8, & 9; Ages 10 and up; and Themed Group (3 or more people). Prizes, refreshments, and candy will be available. Please call 732-872-1224 ext. 232 if you have any questions.

Union Beach Puts Law on Books to Tackle Abandoned Home Problem

Bay Ave 2According today’s Union Beach Borough Council recently put a law on the books that requires owners of vacant homes (mostly bank owned and negligent landlords) to register those properties by escalating annual fees that begin at $500 and top out, after three consecutive years, at $5,000.

The new ordinance puts strict requirements on owners to maintain the appearance of the property — mowing lawns and picking up trash — and also perform repair or remediation on the interior of the home as well.

Violators are subject to fines up to $1,000 per instance and those penalties can be assessed as liens on the property.

Jennifer Wenson Maier (UB Borough Administrator ) is well aware that many Union Beach families were forced out of their homes after Superstorm Sandy and still are trying to figure out the finances to return. Even though it doesn’t specify what kind of owner these rules can be enforced upon, the borough will not apply it to those people, she said.

Union Beach is not looking to go after homeowners who are looking to go back into their homes, they are specifically targeting bank-owned properties and to negligent landlords.

Some of the dangers reported are: raccoons, skunks, rodents, rats, kids going into them, lower property values for neighboring homes, and because of the high grass, people using them as a dumping ground, and mold in the homes in many cases.

Quick Chek Highlands to get Grant

Quick_ChekAccording to,  State of NJ announced this week that 33 gas stations (one of which is Quick Chek on Route 36 on the western edge of Highlands)— using $1.8 million in government grants — have been approved to move forward with plans to retrofit their operations for a backup power supply, so they can continue to sell gas during a crisis with widespread power outages.

The approved stations, which were eligible for the grant because of their strategic location along shore evacuation routes, will be either installing connection points for mobile generators or buying and fitting permanent backup generators.

During Sandy I think most of us remember having to either drive down 36 to either Sunaco or Wawa and waiting on-line.

How to Not to be An Internet Asshole

Anyone who has spent any amount of time on the Highlands NJ Facebook Group,  the Atlantic Highlands Herald chatrooms, or even here on this Blog’s comment section has, at some point interacted with an “Internet Asshole”.  You know you have if you have ever had any of the following happen:

  1. Had your political views compared to that of Hitler’s
  2. Have been told to GFY
  3. Have been told you must eat your own if you disagree with them
  4. Been threatened legally or otherwise
  5. Had sarcastic pictures posted to make fun of you
  6. Had your name misspelled or changed in a thread for no other reason than to irritate

The Internet does have a way of bringing out the worst in people. You may think that the Internet simply allows people to say what they were already thinking anyway.  That’s not necessarily true. It’s not that people were not already thinking these things, it’s just they never had the courage to say them in person.

I wanted to outline some helpful hints on “how to avoid being an Internet Asshole:”

  1. Know what Internet Assholes are, and what their activities are. After all, without knowing what an Internet Asshole’s behavior is, you may be confused with Internet Asshole just because you are engaging in conversations with them. Be informed.internet asshole 1
  2. Rationally consider the other person’s feelings. Remember, people on the people on the other side of the computer screen have feelings too. (Even the Internet Assholes.)
  3. Step Away From The Temptations. (No I don’t mean from listening to My girl, Ain’t too proud to beg or other songs) I mean, Internet Trolls and Assholes are there to pick a fight.  As tempting as it may be to engage and invoke some type of logic, it’s not going to work.  (See my older post (How to win an Internet Argument). It cartoondoesn’t matter that “they started it”, it just matters that you behaved badly too by responding to their bad behavior.
  4. Be civil. This is fairly simple; it is just common etiquette. If you kill them with kindness and logic, that drives Internet Assholes Crazy. It’s really the best revenge.
  5. Take a break from the site if arguments start to escalate.  Go eat a ham sandwich. Doing this will help stop the argument, and in many cases, the conflict will just fade away as the Internet Asshole has nobody to argue with.

With that I just want to remind everyone, we’re coming up on the 2nd anniversary of Sandy. Anniversaries are Trigger Events.  There is much Sandy-itis going on. It’s going on year 3 and our PD & Borough Hall are still in trailers, we’ve not started flood mitigation yet, some people are still not in their care continuumhouses and some people’s RREM grants are being taken back. To feel on edge, angry, anxious, depressed is normal.

Look at the FEMA care continuum from 2013 ——>

It will get better.

One last reminder to those going through this… Alcohol will not make things better…

But then again, neither will milk..

It’s Lighthouse Challenge Time Again

twin lightsThe Lighthouse Challenge of New Jersey is happening the weekend on October 18th & 19th, 2014. Visitors may enjoy the opportunity to tour the state and visit each lighthouse over the weekend, and help raise needed funds for the continued preservation of our treasured landmarks.

Twin Lights & Sandy Hook Lighthouse are just two of the 11 participating lighthouses.

Children aged 11 and under climb free with an adult. More information and hours of operation for each lighthouse are found at participating lighthouse and museum websites and at, and NJ Lighthouse Challenge Facebook

Volunteers Can Give Sandy-Stricken Towns, Taxpayers a Break Main Content

Release date: OCTOBER 3, 2014 Release Number: SRFO NJ NR 37

EATONTOWN, N.J. — After Hurricane Sandy struck New Jersey in October 2012, thousands of volunteers from across the nation came to the state to help affected shore towns.

That help was sorely needed and greatly appreciated by residents of these stricken communities. But the volunteers’ work had an additional benefit – these municipalities can receive credit for the hours put in by volunteers that translates into dollars saved on the costs of recovery – and that credit can be substantial.

FEMA reimburses municipalities as much as 90 percent of the cost associated with disaster recovery projects including debris removal, repair, and reconstruction of public facilities. The communities are responsible for the remainder. However, they can apply the volunteer hours/cost of labor to their share of the overall project cost, which can lead to substantial savings for taxpayers.

Enacted in 2007 and revised in February 2014, FEMA Disaster Assistance Policy 9525.2 allows towns to offset their share of eligible costs with volunteered and donated resources, provided that they keep records of volunteers’ hours worked and duties performed and equivalent information for equipment and materials.

Eighty-seven percent of New Jersey’s non-police public safety workers (firefighters, EMTs, paramedics) are volunteers, the highest rate in the United States.

More than 250,000 volunteers came to the Jersey Shore to help towns and residents clean up, saving the state over 64 million dollars through their volunteer labor.

They fought fires, distributed meals to displaced survivors, set up and staffed emergency shelters, removed debris, prepared and dropped sand bags, and performed search-and-rescue operations and safety inspections, among other duties. They have contributed more than 2.5 million man-hours statewide.

To calculate what the volunteered labor and equipment would have cost, FEMA consulted with the New Jersey Department of Labor to determine the market value for jobs performed on site, including volunteer equipment operators. Donated equipment was valued according to FEMA’s “Schedule of Equipment Rates” unless it is included in a reimbursed equipment rate, in which case it does not count toward the credit. The cost of materials such as sand, dirt, rocks and other materials used to fight floods was set at the commercial rate at the time the work was done. The total amount of expenses for the project is multiplied by .111, which is the percentage of the non-Federal cost share (10 percent) divided by the Federal cost share percentage (90 percent), to get the maximum credit allowed for donated resources.

The credit is deducted from each town’s out-of-pocket obligation after its bills have been paid off and/or mitigated. At present, Union Beach is expecting a credit of approximately $700,000 for volunteer work and donated supplies, a number that will increase if more records are turned in. It is anticipated that Union Beach’s final credit amount will completely cover its 10 percent share of storm-related costs, which could total approximately $9 million. Sea Bright is currently eligible for a credit of more than $450,000. Lakewood Township has been approved for $31,000 of a potential $165,000, while Keyport is eligible for up to $158,000 and has been obligated for more than $21,000 in credits for volunteer efforts.

The policy puts the responsibility on the municipalities to keep track of the volunteer resources used, and those volunteer contributions must be carefully documented. FEMA has its own tracking forms and instructions, and the Volunteer and Donations Management Support Annex provides federal support and recommendations to state, tribal and local governments for managing donated resources.

There are restrictions on what work qualifies for the credit. All work eligible for credit must be done on public property or must benefit the public in some tangible manner, such as distributing food and supplies. Work done for private homeowners is not eligible. For emergency services, only response time is eligible for reimbursement. Donations from other federal agencies cannot be applied.

Also, the amount credited cannot exceed the 10 percent of the incident’s cost that the applicant is responsible for. Any excess credit can only be applied to other emergency projects being handled by that applicant.

Volunteers are still coming to the Jersey Shore to help with relief efforts. The work and time they put in helps restore those communities in more ways than one.

FEMA’s mission is to support our citizens and first responders to ensure that as a nation we work together to build, sustain, and improve our capability to prepare for, protect against, respond to, recover from, and mitigate all hazards.

To help Highlands, if you volunteered CLICK HERE and add your information on the list. If you would rather email your information, please copy the information from the form and email it to either   OR  Please use HIGHLANDS VOLUNTEER HOURS in the subject line.

5 Things from 10/1’s Council Meeting

5  I.  American Legion – They had a 2nd violation of serving non-members while members were not present. Their lawyer worked out a deal with the town attorney, that if it happens a 3rd time (It happened in 2012) a 40 day suspension of their liquor license will be imposed.

II. Attorney-Client Communications: Noise Ordinance Amendments (In Private Session) – Nothing Discussed in Public Session EXCEPT for dissatisfaction that this is still NOT addressed.

III.  Town Flooding – We keep going round and round and hearing  ‘ we’re “4 th ,5th ,3rd ” in line for funding’ and in the mean time nothing, and we’re looking into other funding.  You maybe remember this shovel ready project in 2010. We were in line for funding then too. What happened, nothing except Irene and Sandy.

IV.  Web Survey was announced for town website. What it encompasses: a) what residents are looking for in a municipal site, b)how to better give it (the web site a useful purpose) c)take response from survey and compile with info from other municipal sites and put it into a  RFP for a new website  The Survey:

The survey will be open for 3 weeks and reported back to Council at the Nov 5th Meeting with results of the RFP.

V. O-14-27 Ordinance Prohibiting Parking on Portland Road – Tim Hill requests more time to discuss with Chief Blewett.  Today there are signs no parking on portlandon the right side of the road that say no parking. Some how “No one claims knowledge on how they got there”, no clear ordinances on file for the signs to exist. But they do.  So there needs to be more information to decide if parking *should* exist on Portland on one side

Maybe it was aliens? Drunken DPW in the middle of the night? Ghosts? Mischieviants?  How do you think the “No Parking” signs exist on Portland road?

Question: What’s New & Coming to Highlands?

Hint #1:  Home Made Sausage

Hint #2:  Home Cured Bacon

Hint #3: Porchetta


Bubney is on it's way to being official with a new logo #bubneysbodega #highlandsnj

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What’s Going on With The Zoning Board Tonight

proposed lux apts bay ave
Bay Ave/Waterwitch


7:30 P.M.
Meeting Location:
Highlands Elementary School, 360 Navesink Ave
Hearings on New Business:
ZB#2014 13 Shanagan, Francis Block 69 Lot 15.20 15 Cedar St #20
ZB#2014-15 Grover, Chris, Block 88 Lot 5–321 Bay Ave
ZB#2014- 16 Seylaz, Geraldine Block 79 Lot 13– 27 Washington Ave
ZB#2014-17 Fitzpatrick,Andrew Block 100 Lot 26.30 – 30 Gravelly Pt
Rumor has it, there are people going tonight that are against this development happening, if you want a positive outcome that will make the corner look nicer, increase ratables and support business, please come to zoning board meeting tonight.
There will be free beer and cookies. — (Ok, that part’s not true) But your support is needed.
The Zoning ALL voted Yes for the new plans for the building on Bay/Waterwitch aka Old Pharmacy – There were a few caveats that were positive in resolving:
a) Garbage – which other businesses in the area offered up sharing dumpsters to help him facilitate that part.
b) Parking – which the retail part is already taken care of with the municipal lot being within 1000 feet from the building, on the residential side, there were several ways he *could* accommodate this that were being explored and as long as he could accommodate the parking, no issues.
c) The sizes of the apartments, there was a min of 1000 SQ ft needed per apartment, however it is currently grandfathered in a nonconforming use with the size of the existing apartments as one is 750 sq ft, the new apartments would be over Krankys bike shop where there is nothing currently. It could be looked into to make 2 of the apartments conforming. His architect was confident that he could work on some changes that could accommodate, if the zoning recognized there was one existing that was non-conforming.
All in all – a very positive meeting. All public comments (which there were many) were FOR the new building.

October Festivities Calendar 2014


oktoberfest Highlands Oktoberfest

When: Saturday, Oct 4th,  2– 9PM  – RAIN DATE: OCT 5th

Where: Veterans Park
(Rain Date: Sunday, October 5th) Attendance – Free
An Authentic German Experience
German Food, Beers and Oompah Bands.

Asbury Park Zombie Walk

This year it’s Zombies vs. Brain Cancer! To help us fight the war against brain cancer we are calling on the most powerful army we know, the undead.  The 2014 New Jersey Zombie Walk will kick off “GREY MATTERS,” a campaign that spreads awareness about brain cancer.

Where: Asbury Park Boardwalk
1300 Ocean Ave

10:00am to 4:00pm:


– Undead Festival of vendors is open

  to the public in the Casino

– GREY MATTERS area is open for info and fundraising

  1. Makeup Artists are available for professional

   Zombie Makeovers

  1. Zombie Blood Drive will be accepting donations in front of the Stone Pony

  2. Zombie Food Drive, bring canned

11:00am – 3:00pm:


4:oopm – 4:30pm


6:00pm – 8:00pm:


Live music and festivities continue Downtown and at local businesses throughout Asbury Park.

JCP&L Problems After Lifting

As more and more houses get lifted, more and more unforeseen problems are popping up..utility poles

  • Increased Flood Bills AFTER Lifting
  • Home owners required to replace Utility poles AFTER lifting

In Augusts’ 2014 article, they outline an Ortley resident who was required to pay more than $20,000 for a new utility pole because his house was raised five feet to comply with new flood standards and now than sat dangerously close, about three feet, from its high-voltage line.

The resident’s point was “they [JCP&L] need to absorb the cost and they need to make a new policy that doesn’t penalize one (specific) residential customers because…other residential customers use that (same) pole.”  Also JCP&L never warned him or his contractor of the problem when they filed their plans or when they began construction or removed the wires’ connection to the roof. “At no time, did they tell us, ‘Hey, you’re going to be too close to the wires.’ We could have redesigned the house differently,”

At least one Highlands resident is reporting having something similar happen. With all the lifting going on, it may be more prevalent than first thought.


Capture The Affordable Housing Alliance will be hosting an informational workshop presented by local Township Administrators and Building Code Officials to learn the Building Permit process.

When: Tuesday, September 30th at 6:00 pm

Where: Housing Recovery Resource Center at 171 First Ave., Atlantic Highlands.

Please call the Resource Center to RSVP at 732-982-5072.

Are Fashion Trucks in Highlands A Good Idea

According to this weeks Business Insider, Fashion Trucks are popping all over America.   In Highlands a few days a week, you’ve probably noticed Penelope’s Traveling Boutique either by Huddy Park or by Vets Park.  American Mobile Retail Association (AMRA)  told BI that there are about 500 fashion trucks spread across all 50 states. They began popping up four years ago, but the trend has exploded in the past year as new entrepreneurs learn from the successes and failures of the movement’s pioneers.

Part of the business idea’s appeal is the low-cost of entry, and not having to go through the traditional mercantile processes that a traditional store front would. So the risk is lower.