Capt. Joshua Huddy Honored in Highlands May 3

josh huddyThe Sons of the American Revolution (SAR) and the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) will hold a wreath-laying ceremony at noon on May 3, at the monument to Capt. Joshua Huddy on Waterwich Ave between Bay and Shore in Highlands.

Following the ceremony a luncheon will be held at a local diner.

During the 1700’s Joshua Huddy the commander of a New Jersey Patriot militia unit and a privateer ship during the American Revolutionary War, was captured by Loyalist forces twice. He escaped his first capture, but following his second capture,April 12th in 1782, he was summarily hanged by irregular forces of the Associated Loyalists.

Huddy was a little bit of a degenerate in civilian life, as he was often in civil and criminal court, either as plaintiff or defendant in both his native Salem, MA, and his final home of Monmouth County, N.J. He was tried and convicted several times for such crimes  as assault and theft, and debt.

In 1778, he married his second wife, Catherine (Applegate) Hart, also a widow and owner of a tavern she inherited from her first husband. Huddy was later accused by the Monmouth County sheriff of trying to steal the tavern from his wife and force her children out onto the street.


How to Win an Internet Argument

cartoonWe’ve all been in a situation where you’ve read posts from people that are totally out in left field. They seem to put a twig on their head and enjoy trying to convince people they are a tree.  You know those people. They are the ones that feel “compelled” to post on everybody else’s posts. I’ve been noticing they all use the same techniques. To easily spot these types of posters, I’ve outlined some of the techniques they like to use to “win an internet argument,” in case you want to try at home.

Technique 1: Hotel California

Keep checking out but don’t actually leave. Even though you “say” you’re not posting anymore and ending the argument, keep coming back for that ONE LAST POST.

Good Night, Gracie

Technique 2: Riposte Post

Use words like “Amused,” “Droll,” and “Pathetic” in your responses. Pretend like you’re a wealthy Bond villain and all other posters are beneath you.

Technique 3: First Amendment Reinterpretation Argument

If someone disagrees with you, ask them if they’ve ever heard of the FIRST AMENDMENT and remind them we live in the U.S. of A. and you’re allowed to say whatever you want. The mere fact that they disagree and dare to post their dissent is PROOF positive they are really just trying to squash your freedom of speech.

Technique 4: The Passive Aggressive Apology Technique

If you want to look like the bigger person, just apologize. You don’t actually have to “MEAN it” or admit you did anything wrong. Just use “sorry” somewhere in your post and if the other person doesn’t accept it, it’s their problem. Because it’s a really bad person that won’t let something go after you typed the word sorry.

Technique 5: The Innocent Question Technique

This is Classic Passive Aggressive, with a touch of “I was just asking a question” – as to make people think your opponent is a suppressor of different ideas and critical thinking.

Technique 6: The Backtrack Technique

If you realize you posted something wrong, quickly use your edit button OR tell them that they are just misinterpreting what you meant. Make them think you are so above them that they are taking the literal meaning and not the figurative one that you meant. The fact that you didn’t mean it that way is really irrelevant.

Technique 7: Wingman Technique

Get one of your friends to agree with your way-off post, and if you don’t have any friends, just create another online identity and agree with yourself. No one will ever know.

Technique 8: Incredible Credentials Technique

Who’s going to know if you’re really not an astronaut, lawyer, doctor, or PhD? Just tell people you are. The only thing that could potentially hinder you is your overall lack of knowledge of any of the subject matter.

Technique 9: Tunnel Vision Technique

So you’ve been attacked and proven wrong on all your points… Stay focused. Don’t let little things like evidence and facts get in your way, keep attacking back. Point out grammatical errors if necessary. Who ever posts last WINS.

Technique 10: Hitler Technique

This is your last ditch effort. When all else fails, compare your opponent to Hitler. He was a really bad guy, so comparing opponents to Hitler will vis-a-vis make them look like really bad people. Don’t let the fact that Godwin’s law (short version: you automatically lose your debate if you do this) distract you. Eyes on the prize, posters! Eyes on the prize!

If you don’t actually want to partake in these techniques but simply wish to combat posters like these, you must remember you are dealing with a person who has essentially placed a twig on their head and expects you to believe they are a tree. Armored in that level of “confidence,” almost anything you say will be construed by them as evidence that their tree disguise is working, so you will have to be very specific and to the point in addressing exactly what they’re doing and why it’s not fooling anyone.

Subtlety and sarcasm are great tools, but there is no way in hell they will get through to this type of poster. Unless you’re just toying with them for your own amusement, then the best way to put an end to it is just to be direct.

Your only other option is to sigh heavily, walk away from your computer, and go eat a ham sandwich.


And Sea Bright has another NEW business Opening

bridge highlandsAccording to RedBankGreen Kelly McRyan is trying to open ‘Boondocks II Go’ where the old Hennessey Service Station was at the foot of the Rumson-Sea Bright Bridge. Its focus will be a seafood takeout restaurant serving nearby beach clubs and pass-through traffic, much of which enters town via the bridge over the Shrewsbury River just feet away. But they’ll also have picnic tables indoors and out for onsite dining.

McRyan took her idea to the Sea Bright planning board recently for advisory opinion, and came away with, well, “they pretty much said, ‘Can you open yesterday?’”.

If only Highlands had that much foresight.. Anybody interested in opening a business in Highlands should get green lighted and asked the question “Can you open yesterday??”





Attn: Voters! April 30th – Step Up To The Plate! Candidate Meet & Greet


Attention Highlands Candidates…

Originally posted on dougcard4highlands:

Candidate Meet & Greet Wednesday April 30th. 7pm at Off the Hook

Candidate Meet & Greet
Wednesday April 30th
7pm at Off the Hook

Doug Card is asking all candidates and voters to step up to the plate and attend a Meet & Greet for an open Q&A session.

April 30th at 7pm at Off The Hookrestaurant in the Upper Room.

ALL CANDIDATES ARE WELCOMEand respectfully encouraged to attend.

Many residents have been asking for a chance to question the candidates for the upcoming Council Election this May 13th. Since none has yet to be scheduled, Doug asked Off The Hook if the Upper Room would be available for all the candidates to meet with the public. Luckily, Wednesday – April 30th was open.

The candidates will first introduce themselves to the public and give a quick minute recap as to why they are running. This will be followed by an open Q&A session with residents asking any question they want…

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What does Albert Einstein have in Common with Highlands Elections?

albert einstein We have an election coming MAY 13th. 

Two seats are available.

Some of the candidates running have been on and off the council for up to 10 years.

Did we have flooding over the last 10 years? Yes

Did we have issues with the sewers over the last 10 years? Yes

Did we have issues with attracting businesses in town for the last 10 years? Yes

Did we have sub-standard housing issues over the last 10 years?  Yes

Why would we want to elect the same people in and honestly expect different results? If they couldn’t fix it before Sandy, why would be able to after?


Their argument is going to be, “new” isn’t always better.. And that is true, however, it provides *us* (Highlands) the opportunity to do something different. And by doing something different we have the opportunity to get different results.

I know by posting this, I’m opening up a lightning rod for myself from certain council’s relatives. My comment back to them is, you have to love your relatives regardless of screw ups or non-performance,  I don’t have to…


Wanted: Highlands Residents for Planning Board & Web Site Committee

wanted Wanted:  Planning Board Member & Web Site Committee Members. Any interested residents can fill out a resident ‘Citizen Leadership form

Planning Board meets 1 x a month on Thursdays.

Web Site Committee members will meet 1 x a month date TBD.

If anyone wonders *why* we might need a web site committee, for  one reason  just look at this:

web site


Guess Blogger: Should Highlands Change its Name?

Always Love a Guest Blogger, all I have to do is Cut & Paste..

—With the threat of a large property tax increase looming, a growing number of folks in town, including long time residents fear we are being driven toward bankruptcy unless we can attract and keep new residents and businesses. One way would be to adopt a more accurate and historic name for our town so that our identity would stand out.

The name Highlands was arbitrarily assigned when we were split off from Middletown and has no real link to our famous past. As you know, are always confused with Atlantic Highlands and folks trying to find our struggling businesses, esp. restaurants, often end up there. NJ people, who don’t live in this immediate area, think that Highlands is a place up in Warren County. And although its painful to admit, we may have an image problem. This could have come from the 1960s and 70s, when, as you may remember, partying got a little wild here.

Here are names folks have suggested, vote for the one you like most:

    Highlands Beach Old town name, area on Sandy Hook

   Twin Lights First built 1828

    Highlands By The Sea

    Water Witch Old town name and book by James Fenimore Cooper, written in 1830

    Parkertown First Clamming family here in early 1800s, many descendents still here.

    Cardville First Cards here in 1814, many descendants still in town


Editors Notes: I kinda of like Highlands, just Highlands. But that being said if we are using old names in Highlands others might include:



Ahern by the Sea


Why You Should Go To Wednesday’s Highlands Council Meeting?

Well, I’d tell you what its going to be about, but the town has failed to post the Agenda AGAIN.agenda416  According to the Open Public Meetings Law, which is commonly referred to as the “Sunshine Law”, they are supposed to not only give adequate notice but also to extent known the agenda of the meeting.

Could there be penalties for violating this? The penalty section provides for fines of $100 for the first offense, and between $100 and $500 for any subsequent offenses.

The Council likes to complain that residents don’t attend meetings, but they are also very culpable for not posting agendas.

TBT: How’s the Council Doing NOW?

A year ago I did a poll on how residents thought the Council was doing with Sandy Recovery, I wanted to do a re-poll and see how you’re thoughts have changed?

2013 poll

Poll Results April 2013


Do We Need A New Master Plan? Speak out at Public Hearing – Wednesday April 16th.


Why you may want to attend Wedesday’s Council Meeting..

Originally posted on dougcard4highlands:

image This Wednesday, April 16th, the Highlands Council will be holding a Public Hearing on Ordinance 0-14-11:   ‘Special Emergency Appropriation for Master Plan’.

The ordinance allocates $100,000 for a new Master Plan which will allow the Planning Board, with a committee already selected, to move forward on this task.

The Council is not going out to bid for this project and instead will be handing it over to Marty of T&M who has “done this in the past”.

There are many pros & cons about the need of a new Master Plan at this point in time.  There is particular concern among taxpayers about the appropriation of $100,000 for such a project after the Council has already approved large expenditures for recovery bonds.

Some officials and residents argue that now is the opportune time to define zones, etc. for a new vision – a new Highlands – which just may finally…

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Lunar Eclipse on Tuesday in Highlands

hunter moonThe first Lunar Eclipse since December 2011 is occurring early Tuesday Morning.

\During a lunar eclipse, the moon passes behind our planet so that Earth blocks the sun’s rays from striking the moon. Due to the moon’s tilted orbit around the Earth, one doesn’t occur every month. And total eclipses usually happen once every few years, though there are sometimes more than one in a year.

Lunar eclipses occur only when there is a full moon and the sun, Earth, and moon are precisely aligned for our planet’s shadow to turn out the lunar lights.

When the show begins:

Eastern Daylight Time (EDT) – April 15, 2014
Partial eclipse begins: 1:58 a.m. on April 15
Total eclipse begins: 3:07 a.m.
Greatest eclipse: 3:46 a.m.
Total eclipse ends: 4:25 a.m.
Partial eclipse ends: 5:33 a.m.


The good news is, an eclipse does not affect the tides at all.

Seastreak to add new runs to Jersey City & Hoboken

seastreakDue to the Pulaski skyway being shut down for repairs, a new ferry service will be added on the Seastreak ferry from Atlantic Highlands to Paulus Hook in Jersey City and Hoboken Terminal at a cost of $12 each way.The new service is just one of many to assist some of the 40,000 people that normally travel northbound on the Skyway every day to work..

The 3.5-mile steel truss bridge, opened in 1932, is an iconic New Jersey symbol, featured in Orson Welles’ War of the Worlds, and in the opening credits of the television series The Sopranos.

Car Accident on Bay Ave by Chilangos

On Wednesday Evening approximately 10:40 pm a sedan  traveling west bound on Bay Avenue slammed into a parked car in front of Action Realty pushing it onto Sea Drift Avenue and coming to a complete stop in front of Francescos.

No reported injuries except for the car being driven which apparently lost a wheel.

The car that was parked belonged a Chilangos patron.

Sandy, Tax Cap Exclusions & Highlands

tax capHave you heard about the 2% tax increase cap for property tax?  In 2010 Governor Chris Christie  signed into law a more stringent property tax cap, a compromise that supporters hope will slow the growth in local spending and property taxes.

However there are exceptions to the cap. Those exceptions include:

  • Capital expenditures and debt service
  • Pension contributions and accrued liability
  • Health care costs
  • Extraordinary costs associated with a declared emergency (aka Sandy expenditures)

What does that mean for Highlands Residents? Your property taxes could go up over the 2% cap.

The next council meeting the council is voting on O-14-9

the Governing Body of the Borough of Highlands in the County of Monmouth finds it advisable and necessary to increase its CY 2014 budget by up to 3.5%over the previous year’s final appropriations, in the interest of promoting the health,safety and welfare of its citizens; and,
the Governing Body of the Borough of Highlands hereby determines that a 3.5% increase in the budget for said year, amounting to $200,923.34 in excess of the increase in final appropriations otherwise permitted by the Local Government Cap Law, is advisable and necessary.

What can you do about it? Pay attention to what the council is spending money on and bonding out. Hold them accountable for their spending.

For example: hiring Deblasio (new CFO) for a 4 year term without looking for options.


Home-In-A-Box available to Sandy Survivors

beddingNeed help replacing household stuff still from Sandy?In an effort to help ease the burden of displaced Sandy survivors moving back home, the St. Vincent de Paul Society is offering the “House in a Box” program to provide residents with home furnishings.including furniture, bedding, dishes, cookware, and towels.

Please contact the providers at the numbers below for a complete list.

Prospective applicants need a FEMA number to apply. Applications may be submitted through local St. Vincent de Paul conferences, Catholic Charities, or Visitation Relief Center in Brick. Residents do not have to be Roman Catholic to apply, nor do they need to belong to any other faith group. Applicants will be interviewed to verify the need and when approved the items may be picked up at St. Vincent de Paul’s warehouse in Ocean Township. Residents are asked to arrange their own transportation but St. Vincent de Paul is willing to help if appropriate transportation cannot be obtained.

Interested residents may contact Catholic Charities at 800-652-2080×4210, Visitation Relief Center at 732-746-3456, or their local Catholic Church to be connected to the nearest St. Vincent de Paul Society to apply.

The closest St. Vincent de Paul Society near Highlands is:

Our Lady of Perpetual Help
141 Navesink Avenue
Highlands, NJ 07732
732-872-1290, ext. 6
– Highlands
– Sea Bright

Limited amounts are available.

CALL the local message center and they will reach out to you and set up an appointment to visit with you as soon as possible.


Small Businesses Met at Francescos to Voice Frustrations

francescopizzaopeningNew Jersey Assembly Majority Leader Louis Greenwald met with the NJ Main Street Alliance and fifteen small business owners (From Hoboken to LBI) Monday, in a roundtable event discussing the Economic Development Authority’s grossly mismanaged administration of the Stronger New Jersey Business Grant program.

The event, which took place at Francesco’s Italian Restaurant in Highlands, New Jersey, featured several business owners from across the state expressing serious frustrations about lengthy, unexplained delays, being bounced from caseworker to caseworker, and a lack of transparency surrounding the process.


Easter Egg Hunt in Highlands

easter eggThe Annual Easter Egg Hunt in Highlands is here:

WHEN: Saturday April 12, 2014  10 AM Hunting Begins

WHERE: Highlands Elementary School Field

Groups are as Follows:

  • Toddlers (2 & Younger)
  • 3 & 4 year olds
  • 5 & 6 year olds
  • 7 & 8 year olds
  • 9 & 10 year olds
  • 11 and up

Prizes are awarded and refreshments served.

BYOB – (Bring your own Basket)

easter bunny



Rain Date: Sunday April 13, 1pm


Rain – Slick Roads Factor in RT 36 Crash

SUV rt 36Approximately 7pm Friday evening a silver SUV traveling between the Highlands Bridge and Miller street lost control and struck a pole near the empty lot. Residents reporting hearing a loud crash. A young female driver sustained serious injuries and was taken to the hospital in an ambulance.

Although no one reported power out, reports of cable and phone disruptions were noted.

It is not known exactly what caused the accident and there were no other vehicles involved.

Which Highlands Restuarant are you Going to Miss Most this summer?

Clam Hut